Greetings from Shemale Spice. I decided to include this section of my site since so many people are interested in dating or to be blunt having a sexual experience with Shemale. There are many sites out there where you can meet these wonderful girls and please don't contact me about hooking you up, I am just supplying a little guide on some of my personal thoughts. If you know all about the world of Shemales, Transsexuals and Ladyboys and you are just looking for where to find them, then check out my Contact Section and Personals Section to give you an idea on what sites you will find this information.
Well you are going to here many versions but but basically a Shemale is a woman inside a man's body. You could basically say that a shemale is a woman trapped in a man's body and is taking the steps to become a woman. In reality the term shemale is really attributed to the porn industry and your day to day girls that are not in the industry would probably find that term somewhat insulting. There are different kinds of Tgirls such as:
1. Pre-Op Transsexual - Your girls that still have a cock, some plan to go with the surgery and others do not, really depends on the girl and how comfortable she feels with her sexuality. Most Pre-Op's plan one day to go with the surgery
2. Post-Op Transsexual - These girls have gone through with the surgery and now have female genitals.
3. Non-Op Transsexual - These girls don't plan to have the surgery
4. Ladyboy - Or sometimes called Kathoey Girls are basically your Transsexuals from Asia
You are going to hear a lot of terms regarding Shemales, others that are not included above are Trannies, Tranny, Tgirls, HeGirl, and I am sure there are many more.
Well I hear this all the time and many men and even women have confusing feelings on the subject. Often transsexuals will actually be very feminine acting which appeals to many men. She actually is more feminine then many woman you may know. Transsexuals see themselves as real woman and are actually attracted to the straight man. Really you should consider yourself straight, you are just interested in a girl with a special surprise, she acts like a girl, wants to be treated as a girl and is looking for a man that loves women. In fact many men find Tgirls to be more feminine then Gender Girls
Sure you will have those that will argue this, saying your are Bi curious, Bisexual or even gay but I can tell you this. Real gay guys are not interested in Shemales and Shemales are usually not interested in gay guys. Shemales wear perfume, can have sexy feminine bodies and voices, have breasts, wear sexy clothes and gay guys don't want any of that, if they wanted a girl they would be straight. Gay guys respond to masculinity not femininity.
You will find that real admirers of Shemales, Tgirls are going to be mostly Straight men. Some pursue relationships and others are just looking for a quick fling and others are just as happy to check them out on a Cam site or in Movies and Galleries on the Internet. Society is accepting these special girls more and more and those that love them, of course like anything else there are those close minded individuals.
Well there are two areas here. 1. There are those that are looking for a sexual hookup with a Shemale. Those looking for a sexual fantasy with one of these girls. There are lots of Escorts out there, whether or not they will participate in sexual activities is between you and the girl so like I said before don't contact me. This is just a guide. You can go to the contact section and even the personal section, the contact section focuses on some of the web sites that you can join to get contact information of some of the professional shemales and Ladyboys. The personal section I am sure has its share of escorts as well but there are many other Tgirls looking for friendships, dating, relationships and even marriage.
2. Well if you are looking for something more then just a sexual encounter and you are seeking to date or have relationship with a Tgirl there are a few things you should know. The majority of Tgirls out there, whether they are on the internet or out in the day to day world want to be treated like a real woman because to them that is exactly what they are. I always find it funny on Internet chat how many guys start talking to a Tgirl with lines such as "I want to suck your cock", or " let's fuck baby" and I am sure you have used or heard many others. I am not going to lie there are a few girls out there that will respond to that but the majority will put you on their ignore list or just not respond.
Real Tgirls are looking for a man that treats them like a woman. They want to be greeted at the door by you holding flowers, they want to be taken out to dinner and told how beautiful they are. Like a Gender girl you are going to have to work to get into their panties. Most Gender Girls don't respond very well to lets go fuck after the first date and you will find that with Tgirls as well. Even respecting Escorts could give you some extra bonuses I am sure. Basically, treat a Tgirl as a woman and not a sex object and you will grab their attention. Most Tgirls Don't want to see a photo of your cock, nor will jump on Cam for you and give you a hardcore show. If you are looking for that, which is absolutely fine, then check out some cam sites like IMLIVE or the many Pay Sites which I talk about on Shemale Spice.
